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Does Atheism Offer As Much Comfort in Death As Religion?

Posted by ralph on January 11, 2010

Greta Christina writes on Alternet:
LifeAfterDeath

What is an appropriate atheist philosophy of death?

And how should atheists be talking about death with believers?

As regular readers know, I’ve been doing a project on Facebook: the Atheist Meme of the Day, in which I write pithy, Facebook-ready memes explaining one aspect of atheism or exploding one myth about it, and asking people to pass the memes on if they like. (BTW, if you’re on Facebook, friend me!)

Some of my Memes of the Day have generated disagreement from some atheists. Which is fine, of course. I don’t expect or want all atheists to agree about everything. Quite the contrary: one of the great things about atheism is that we have no central dogma that we all have to agree on, and no central authority that we all have to obey.

But the memes that have generated the most vocal and vigorous pushback have surprised me. They have consistently been the ones about death: the ones trying to show that a godless view of death can offer some degree of solace and meaning; the ones that begin, “Atheism does have comfort to offer in the face of death.” Whenever I write one of these, I can almost guarantee that within a few hours — usually within a few minutes — someone will be complaining that the comforting philosophy I’m presenting isn’t comforting at all. Or even that atheism can’t possibly present a philosophy of death that could compete with the comfort offered by religion… with the apparent implication that it’s either deceptive or deluded to pretend that this is possible, and that we shouldn’t even try.

Read More of Greta Christina’s article on Alternet

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  • nyxynox

    WHY should atheists be talking to believers about death?!?!?

    This newfangled evangelical fundimentalist atheism is getting annoying. BTW, atheism DOES have a central dogma: There is no god. I would like to see an atheist deviate from that and still be accepted as an atheist.

  • manny furious

    Yeah, I'm starting to find Atheists to be some of the most self-righteous people in the country right now. I'm pretty open-minded but their smugness is more than annoying.

  • Tuna Ghost

    Oh for fuck's sake. Regardless of what faith you hold (or lack thereof) if you're still afraid of dying you're only playing games.

  • http://profiles.yahoo.com/u/PDDVWRQVUPMKRGHURIEQVNYWHQ Sean

    it's a defense mechanism, if you do not combat the rise of militant religion which we see everywhere in the end it will kill you, i'd rather see a preachy jackass athiest over a clinic bomber or a westboro baptist any day

  • Gregory

    The question is moot. Atheism is a religion, too.

  • nyxynox

    I can honestly say I am not afraid of dying. Nervous, maybe. Excited, definately! I look at it like it is trip to a foreign country that I been planning for years and embark upon years into the future. Nothing I do right now is going to make that day come closer, but I am so looking forward to it. I figure there is no use being afraid as it is inevitable. Entheogens help with the fear of death. They are actually doing a study with LSD/Shooms on term cancer patients to help them with their fear of eminate death and it is helping. LSD changed my life. But I don't recommend it for anyone younger than 30 as it is wasted on the youth.

  • Alexis

    That's the way I feel too. But then, perhaps religious people do also. Whether or not it will be the last thing my body and mind experience, I cannot say. Will I ever know for sure? Can't say that either! But at least I won't have to fear at the end – about going to hell for instance. (never touched drugs – self-righteous ass that I am!)

  • Alexis

    No. Religion is organized – has its own gangs. Some gangs get together to do good, others to do evil. Look at GWBush's god fearin' gang. I have yet to see a gang of atheists get together to do anything. In fact, we like to mix and mingle with religious people, but we don't feel the need to shout about our lack of religion. We would like respect as individuals with individual ideas that are just as valid as anyone else's. That is why we are are getting more vocal. We are coming out the closet just like the gays. Accept us, in fact you are free to join us, no questions asked and no answers expected. We are the future!

  • Tuna Ghost

    You're ignoring “activist atheism”, which is a brand of atheism that sounds fairly evangelical, and a particular “gang” of atheists that took out bus ads in Britain that read “there is no god, now stop worrying and enjoy your life”. Perhaps you've truly never witnessed atheists getting together en masse to do something, but that certainly doesn't mean it isn't happening.

    The argument on wether or not atheism is a religion depends more on your description of religion, really, although the label “atheist” does seem to carry more connotations as atheist writers get more vocal and more persistent that their attitudes are the correct ones.

  • http://thefirstchurchofmutterhals.blogspot.com/ mutterhals

    Yeah, the truth tends to be comforting…

  • Tuna Ghost

    Says you! I live in Korea, and when I find a dog collar in my soup I just pretend it's a very thick noodle. With a brass name-tag. And a family that misses it.

  • Alpha Centauri

    I'm a weak atheist or agnostic 64 years old so most of my life is over. Frankly I accept that being nothing doesn't hurt, I'd rather face annihilation after death than face eternal torture in hell. I'd rather face annihilation after death than spend eternity praising the torturer in heaven. Thinking this way has got me through my life so far though I don’t know how I will react if I ever know that death is days, hours or minutes away. When it happens I hope I won’t know it’s happening. I’m sorry for those believers whose lives and deaths are blighted by fear about a bad hereafter.

  • http://www.leifjones.com/ Leif Jones

    What is it that people fear about death? I don’t get it.

    I understand the fear of the unknown, but since death is a certainty it’s very much known.

    I understand the fear of dying, and the possible pain associated with it, but as someone who takes responsibility for my life and my own actions in life, I also take responsibility for my death. I die when and where and how I choose to die.

    True I could possibly die in a freak accident, but the odds are I won’t. I will most likely die when I choose, either through my own actions or my own inactions.

    Death is not a mystery. So what’s to fear?

  • fnordburger

    I think the soviets were pretty aggressive at pushing atheism. I agree the religious right in the States (I'm UK) is a thing of concern. I don't think dogmatic atheism is the answer. In fact I find most dogmatic atheists were once dogmatic Christians. I think its the need for certainty that is the problem. Atheism is comforting for Atheists because it guarantees annihilation without consequences and means that our current understanding of the universe and our lives is pretty much complete. I have an uncle – a devout atheist – who once told me that he tried to watch himself going to sleep when he was a teenager and found himself floating out of his body – it terrified him enormously. I think that explains the mindset (not OOBEs which I have no interest in, true or false).

  • Alexis

    So, for many millennium the religious have spouted their doctrines and mythology, and influenced the people of the world. Indeed, I find them a bore, self-righteous and obnoxious. But the minute atheists start sounding like them….it's OK for them but not for us. Hypocritical and laughable.

    Athists come out with a bus sticker – big deal! OH, WOW! Evil incarnate is it? How many bumper stickers and other such nonsense have religious folk forced into the public view. We've lived with it – now they can live with us. Everyone is entitled to their own point of view. We do not say that our attitude is the “correct” one. Those are your words, not ours. We say only that it is the correct one for us. Christians say their belief is the *only* correct one and denigrate those who do not believe. That is their choice. I don't want to fight over my beliefs, just my right to have them. I also respect the rights of Christians to have their own beliefs. Will never go to war over this! No need.

  • tonyviner

    I don't think there is any reason to beat around the bush when it comes to talking to believers about death. They don't hold back when it is up to them to spread the word, so why should I? So I don't hurt someone's feelings? That is not a good enough reason. I'm supposed to be worried about what these people think when all the while it is THEIR belief systems that upset the balance and order of the planet? No.

  • theophany

    what does the Atheist think about Metaphysics? Schopenhuer? the Pali texts of early Buddhism. What is reality? How do you explain BEING? pure chance? natural science by chance is elegant and Beautiful? I say take the path of Most resistance. what is comfort? if we are all No thing isnt that comfortable or would we rather be uniform nothing or is this the same thing. What accounts for self awareness in natural science? an accident? what does the self reflection of the scientist mean? because he cant demonstrate the reality of his dreams, does that make them not real?
    I say use reason dear atheist but don't forget your self. look in far.
    Death happens at every moment kill your inner preconceived notions and be born into Gnowing and then you wont be afraid. be afraid of comfort, complacency, and ease. seek and ye shall find.

  • Alexis

    I doubt very much that the only agenda of the soviets was “pushing atheism” as its be all and end all.
    Were they really atheists at all, or *bad* religious people gone awry with power. I wonder how many on their deathbed prayed to their lord to forgive them their horrendous deeds. Just a thought.

    “Atheism is comforting for Atheists because it guarantees annihilation without consequences” Seems like a pejorative comment. Again, we are not seeking any guarantees. What is IS. No fear of dying. Period. A realistic look at a life we all know must end sometime.

    “means that our current understanding of the universe and our lives is pretty much complete.” That is a ridiculous statement, and again putting words into our mouths. Those are your words only. If anything, atheists know more than most religious people that we will *never* understand the universe, nor our own lives…but we are along for the ride. Simply that. WE don't hae the answers. Christians think they do. However, we are inquisitive about all of nature and every aspect of our universe, and our fellow man…for what else is there to get excited about!!!

    What's with the story of the OOBE? A great many more so called Christians believe in all kinds of weird phenomenon than do atheists.

  • fnordburger

    LOL.

  • MannyFurious

    See, that's my problem with Atheism. You said: “Christians think they do. (have answers)” But I say, “Who said anything about Christians?” It's pretty obvious that the Judeo-Christian interpretation of a, for lack of a better word, “God” is, at the very least, incomplete, and, more likely, just plain off.

    Ultimately an Atheists' conception of a God is just as narrow and simple as the Christian's

  • MannyFurious

    I think you're on the right track theophany… but most Atheists tend to be stark materialists, even though by proxy, by claiming that materialism is the end all, be all, they are making a metaphysical statement.

    But you'll just end up confusing most of them…..

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  • santosfabian

    touchy subject a? liked what you all had to say.

  • Alexis

    See! People understand whatever they want to from the written word on the internet. Written words on the spur of the moment do not transmit the exact “idea”. For example, I said Christian, but since we are talking about religion in general, I meant religion in general.
    So……Oh, absolutely Christians and almost all religions believe they have the answer. To say otherwise, is not wise!

    God gave the tablets to Moses. Mary was a virgin. Jesus rose from the dead. Jonah was swallowed by a whale. Some go to heaven. Some go to hell. Good angels. Bad angels. The myths are endless and fun to read. God and Zeus are one and the same. Both are figments of man's fertile imagination. And a good thing too, stories with a moral and ethics are often told, but then again so is violence condoned and even incited when read as “truth” or “Bible truth” with no other options.

    But we, humans, who invented those stories many millennium ago, have learned a lot. We now live in the twenty first century are far away from explaining natural phenomenon and science by some otherworldly being of which there is no proof, and who must be followed on blind faith alone. Or else….Satan!

    And for the record, I have no opinion at all on god because he does not exist…for me. I have no problem with that, but others sure seem to. I have no problem with others believing in God. I do my best with what I have without making any concerted effort to put others down. (except I don't suffer fools lightly when they try to put me down – that's one of my many human attributes.)

  • Alexis

    While I have a great interest in reading about all the list you mention above, and find them very interesting, I have used my reading, taken what I like and find useful and true, to form my own opinions which are just as valid as all the authors, philosophers and pundits of this world. My thought are my own, derived from my own experiences and knowledge, and not spouted from the lines of others. Think for yourself, use the tools you were born with, take off the blinders of faith alone, and eat the apple. It's delicious.
    Finally, who needs comfort when there is nothing to fear, only regret at leaving this lovely world behind.

  • Tuna Ghost

    The issue isn't as simple as you're making it out to be, unfortunately–sure, for millennia religions have spouted doctrines, but the fact of the matter is religion was (is) a part of our culture, our society. A part of every culture, actually. One would not have arisen without the other. Your post belies a tendency toward generalizations, evidenced by the line “we do not say that our attitude is the 'correct' one” (as an aside, several noted atheist authors have, rather, insisted that the religious perspective is not only incorrect but actually harmful to society, and when they have set up the problem as “Us” against “Them”, then modus tollens would suggest that they are in fact saying that their attitude is the correct one) whereas “christians”, which is too large and diverse a group of people to lump together under one term, “denigrate” those who do not believe. These are generalizations, and they are not helpful to any sort of real discussion. Simply put, not all christians believe these things. In fact, I would say that it's a minority of people who self-identify as christians actually act the way you're describing.

    Re: the bus stickers, if you believe that religious advertising in the public arena is obnoxious, why isn't it obnoxious when atheists are doing it? Also, it's not just the message, it's the condescending tone that gets most people upset.

  • Tuna Ghost

    “If anything, atheists know more than most religious people that we will *never* understand the universe, nor our own lives…”

    I don't think you can qualify that. in fact, I'm positive you can't. Again with the generalizations.

  • Tuna Ghost

    “While I have a great interest in reading about all the list you mention above, and find them very interesting, I have used my reading, taken what I like and find useful and true, to form my own opinions which are just as valid as all the authors, philosophers and pundits of this world.”

    This is a common misconception. Also it contradicts your later statement that your thoughts are your own.

  • spitzig

    I can think of at least three things to fear about death.

    1. is not actually death-it's what's after death. THAT is the unknown. Nothing, heaven, hell, getting bounced back into a good/bad body, and lots of other possibilities.

    2. Leaving people you love. That's a known that lots of people fear.

    3. Probably less than the other things, but death usually isn't fun-most people feel some PAIN when it happens. Not a little bit of pain, either

  • spitzig

    Your point of philosophy (there is no god) is usually defined as strong atheism. Atheism is usually defined as a person who does not have a belief in a god. Agnosticism is also a subset of this definition of atheism.

    Atheism is like saying “not yes”. This allows the possibility of “no” and “I don't know.”
    Strong atheism is like saying “no”.
    Agnosticism is like saying “I don't know”.

    Personally, I would call myself an agnostic atheist. Of course, using these definitions, atheist is redundant.

  • spitzig

    I would say that most members of a religion would say their knowledge of their deity is pretty incomplete. Often because they are crappy members, and don't study much. All the big religions claim in their main books something like you can't know their god completely. Often, it's blasphemy to say that you do.

    But, I'd agree that most people's view of their deity(and their neighbor's) is narrow.

  • spitzig

    Saying that something affects something else is not the same as saying it determines it.

    I happen to not especially believe in free will, but my thoughts are not only determined by the authors, philosophers and pundits of the world. They are determined by plenty of random things, too. How my parents disciplined me. Discussions with friends.

    You can use other sources for deciding things. Thinking for yourself just means THINK-don't just “Do X because Y says so.” By that, you can consider what a philosopher says wise, and use it because of that, but you will likely sometimes reject what he says because it doesn't work in a certain circumstance.

    The wind blowing outside my window. Of course, I can't tell the difference between having free will and having an illusion of free will, so my lack of belief is kind of irrelevant.

    When stating that something is a misconception, it is good to say why. Otherwise, why would anyone care about your opinion?

  • http://www.leifjones.com/ Leif Jones

    200,000 people die every day. Resistance is futile.

  • Tuna Ghost

    Apologies, I had thought it seemed fairly obvious. It's always tempting to believe that because you have invested thought in a subject that your opinion is as valid as anyone else's. Take the Bible, for instance. Having been raised in a religious environment, during my life I've run into several people who were very interested in the Bible, it's history, themes and ideas, and have done research here and there on those subjects. This by no means made their opinion as valid as, say, Elaine Pagels or Barrie Wilson. Politics is another example. Just because someone watches the news doesn't make their opinion as valid as someone who has a much more intimate knowledge of how the government functions or its limitations and responsibilities.

  • spitzig

    I think most people in Star Trek feared the Borg. And, actually, the main focuses of the show defeated the Borg. Star Fleet, the Enterprise, Voyager, probably any show that had them as a villain since good always triumphs in the Star Trek universe(which includes the EPISODES of the Dark universe, anyway).

    I didn't actually mean to say I was resisting death, though. Me, I'm Zen. I don't worry about death. I'll find out when it happens. Until then, I try to concern myself with today. If someone I'm very close to dies, maybe I'll shift my opinion. I was only giving explanations of others' reasons.

  • http://www.leifjones.com/ Leif Jones

    If you are Zen you are not close to anything or anyone, only everything.

  • mycomadam

    Yes AND no. I am always comforted by the fact that no other unknown entity (god) is responsible for the death of a loved one but nature or chance. But grieving for the lost one, knowing that they are no more and never will be, makes my sorrow 10 fold.

  • spitzig

    Well, I try to be Zen. Even Zen priests are married. Hearing my old Sensei talk about his dead sister made me pretty sad. Hearing him talk about his high sex drive made me laugh(he's married). I think you'd have trouble convincing him he isn't close to them.

  • cjdakota

    If you are afraid of death then religion is the one that you can use to make it easier to accept. It all depends on how you think about death doesn't it. If you are spiritual and take religion and atheism out of the equation and realize they are just labels you may find it easier to accept.

  • anti_supernaturalist

    Why argue against believers? To convince others that believers are vectors of serious mental illnesses.

    Their vices, especially in judaism xianity, and islam, sicken the entire planet:

    1. Effort wasted — time, money, energy both psychological and physical — on nihilistic action pushed by religious functionaries. (Did you think “God” has anything do with it?)

    2. Poor mental habits learned — illogical arguments, denial of well verified scientific truths, psychological projection of hatred, mindless praise of ignorance — as part of apologetics.

    3. Diseased psychological predispositions fostered — denial of death, glorification of suffering, wallowing in “sin,” degrading the “world,” unhealthy views about sex and gender — by the big-3 monster theisms.

    4. Arrogant moral and political absolutism demanded — misogyny, androcentrism, paternalism, pro-natalism, intolerance of ideological differences, theo-political drive to overthrow secular governments — as part of “mission” to “overcome” the world.

    You need no longer wonder why the US — soon to be a xian Ameristan — threatens its own people and the entire planet.

    the anti_supernaturalist

  • gotnostringsonme

    Okay, I know what death is, but really…What's death?

  • GoodDoktorBad

    Does Atheism Offer As Much Comfort in Death As Religion? I'll let you know next time I die……….

  • Alexis

    “This is a common misconception. Also it contradicts your later statement that your thoughts are your own”

    Well, if that is your understanding of my statement, it is your own opinion and welcome to it.

  • Alexis

    Furthermore, if I write a book, I will become an expert! LOL!

  • http://fiction.wikia.com/wiki/The_Aliens_of_the_Flaming_Red_Sun Proxima Centauri

    I don't usually bring up the subject with believers, but believers have sometimes asked me how atheists face dying. When that happens I reply, “I don’t know, I haven’t done it yet.” When I am next asked that question I plan to add that I am sorry for those believers in various religions who face death fearing, the Christian concept of Hell, the Muslim concept of Hell, reincarnation as an insect, or any of the other imaginative ways that different believers torment themselves and each other over death.

  • ellioxx

    No. Your definition of an atheist is really that of a “non-theist”.
    The answer to the god question is always “no” from an atheist, otherwise they aren't atheist!

  • http://www.facebook.com/inman.james James Inman

    This guy’s problem is just with western religious ideas of God… If he’d just spend a bit of time in the world religion section of the book store he’ll find all kinds of ideas and philosophies and ways of looking at the world that have nothing to do with God… Most of these books are from the East… Zen, Tao and Buddhism don’t really have any Gods or much concern with the afterlife… And I would say the Buddha was one of the biggest atheists in history… It’s like this guy hasn’t even looked into it…

  • http://www.facebook.com/inman.james James Inman

    This guy's problem is just with western religious ideas of God… If he'd just spend a bit of time in the world religion section of the book store he'll find all kinds of ideas and philosophies and ways of looking at the world that have nothing to do with God… Most of these books are from the East… Zen, Tao and Buddhism don't really have any Gods or much concern with the afterlife… And I would say the Buddha was one of the biggest atheists in history… It's like this guy hasn't even looked into it…